You just need to hope you get your stuff back in the condition that you sent it. What will Ebay do if you do get scammed ? Do they withhold payment until you get your stuff back and await your approval ?
No idea. There's only one button available within ebay which says "issue refund". I'll not be clicking that until after I've received the item back.
From ebays seller protection faq (my least favourite pointless page on the internet):
How does the eBay resolution process work?
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For item significantly not as described cases, you have 8 days to arrange one of the following:
- send a replacement item, if this is what the buyer would prefer. Buyers are required to return the original item first. We expect you to post the replacement item and provide the related tracking information to the buyer within 3 days of receiving the returned item.;
- refund the buyer. Buyers are required to return the original item first. We expect you to refund the buyer within 6 days of receiving the returned item;
- offer a partial refund and the buyer can keep the item
- contest the case by providing proof to eBay that the item was described properly (for example, the buyer is stating that the item is used rather than new, and the listing clearly describes the item as used).
At the end of the 8-day period, eBay will check with the buyer to see if they are satisfied. If the buyer is satisfied, the case is closed. If we don’t hear back from the buyer, we won’t refund them or hold you accountable for the transaction.
If the buyer is not satisfied, eBay will review the case. If we find in favour of the buyer, we will remove funds from the seller’s PayPal account to reimburse the buyer for the cost of the item and the original postage cost, in a way similar to how PayPal currently reverses transactions; or, where there are insufficient funds in the seller’s PayPal account or where PayPal is not the reimbursement method of the seller, directly refund the buyer for the cost of the item and the original postage cost, and, in this situation, when appropriate, require the seller to reimburse us for the refund according to the process described in "How are reversals managed in the eBay Resolution system? ". Sellers must have a valid reimbursement method on file with eBay at all times
We understand that there will be times where both the buyer and the seller may be right. In those cases, eBay may absorb the cost to reimburse the buyer without any impact on you.
So, as far as I can see, all I can do is communicate directly with the buyer (via ebay messenger), arrange a courier, confirm the tracking number (via ebay messenger), and click issue refund within 6 days of receiving it back.
I'll call ebay (again) and confirm this is the correct action once I hear back from the buyer regarding collection.