Just 'cos a picture (or video) paints a thousand words, for anyone wondering if their BMW viscous fan is about right, watch this excellent video through.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDuGsDUiXQw
My own fan is probably about the right stiffness. The video shows I can't properly tell until it has been spun up on the car to return the viscous oil to its reservoir, but my fan shows something like melted plastic (or maybe an epoxy-glue bodge repair?) has oozed from between the big 32mm nut and the viscous clutch body and set. Not having that. New part on order.