More trials took place yesterday...
Car up to operating temp (I think) (needle was in the middle so I guess that is the best you can do)
We then put a meter on the solenoid connector pins and it read battery voltage regardless of what we did with the engine
I revved it to 3k+ but no change, weird
I am all the more tempted to make a separate computer control it, maybe I make it into a kit !
Still frustrating though