Goodbye Ash, now resting in peace

[Gail]

As many of you will be aware, Ash's family and friends said their goodbyes to him today.

I joined them for the church service and now I have had time to reflect would like to recall some of the day's moments for you.

The church was full, with barely a seat to be had.

He had been a fan of "The Royle Family" so was carried in to the strains of the theme tune "Half the World Away" by Oasis.

Amanda gave a personal, very moving and amusing tribute to Ash. She spoke of his friendship with the Zroadster community and reminded us all of her seat-breaking episode at the March meet. Cue laughter all around. The strength Amanda showed in paying her tribute was truly inspiring.

Ash's mum Karen's personal tribute was a playing of "How Long Will I Love You" by Ellie Goulding.

There were also tributes, a song and a poem from Ash's friends before the service came to a close and he was carried out to the strains of one of his favourite TV shows.......... "Only Fools and Horses". No laughter but plenty of quiet, reflective smiles.

In addition to our floral tribute I left a card on behalf of the forum members. It contained several sheets onto which I had copied the names and messages from all of you who had posted on the various threads about Ash's passing.

Sadly I didn't get chance to speak to Amanda or Karen but could see they have the support of their families and many friends.

Ash was fond of a drink so I am raising a glass to him tonight and I hope you will too.

Rest in Peace Ash​

 

[Antm72]

Gone but never forgotton ..... To Ash

 

[andyglym]

Thanks for sharing. Glass duly raised. RIP

 

[hard top]

 

[M666BMG]

RIP Ash x

 

[GazHyde]

Gail, I cannot thank you enough for today. I've been thinking about Ash on and off all day and it sounds like he got the very best kind of send off imaginable.

I've not heard the Ellie Goulding song mentioned, so I just found it on YouTube. What a beautiful song.

Rest in peace Ash

 

[t-tony]

My heart felt thanks for representing us all at Ash's funeral @Gail. I had a few quiet minutes to myself this afternoon and I'll certainly have a drink in his memory tonight.

Rest in peace young man.

Tony.

 

[jonco]

Well done @Gail - very nice, delicately worded summary.

 

[Shelly]

Well done @Gail
You done us all proud today ,
Your words have made me cry , I just can't imagine what his poor family are going through , you don't know until your been their yourself , they say time is a healer but not in cases like this , no one should have to go through this , it so heart breaking , thank you for telling us about today , xxxx

 

[Gail]

Thank you everyone for your kind words. It was my way of giving to this community. I can't help fix dodgy roof motors or advise on any of the myriad of technical questions on here but that I could do.

 

[David]

Thank you so much @Gail

 

[t-tony]

Now you know why I saved my tribute sicker David.

Tony.

 

[pgunter]

RIP Ash.

 

[Althulas]

Thanks for sharing Gail nicely written

 

[Zeti]

Thank you Gail! You did great in our spirit...
This sudden departure of Ash, so young, took my words away for a while...still can't believe...I hardly imagine the shock for family and close friends...

 

[Shortie_gal]

Rip Ash sounds like he had a great send off and Amanda was incredibly strong! Thanks Gail for letting us all know and for being there!

 

[oldcarman]

RIP ASH! Thanks Gail, I appreciate your words! JIM