Jim B
Regular Member
So earlier this week we had a bit of snow nothing out of the ordinary for Aberdeenshire . But one night the wind got up and my farm road started drifting , my wife anticipated there may an issue getting to work the next day and left her car at the bottom of the road . In the morning while snow ploughing the road and giving the wife a lift down in the tractor I was forced to stop due to a neighbour who stays half down the road had tried to get out but had got stuck . Fair enough we can all get stuck so after seeing the wife to her car I reversed home and fed my cattle .
Now the problem , I had a hospital appointment for 10.45 (another story a cow kicked me and broke my hand) so I went to my neighbours house about 9.00 and his wife told me he had abandoned his car there and got a lift to work with out so much as leaving a spare key so that I could shift it. So I had no way of getting out and even though she called him three times and I was assured he was coming back to move it he didn't appear till 1.30 missing both my original appointment and a cancellation one I managed to get for 12.30.
After approaching him a couple of days later after I had calmed down a bit he was not apologetic and even thought that it was my fault for not keeping the road clear of snow , I asked him why he didn't call me as I'd have helped him get out , he responded by saying he didn't want to bother me . So trying to move on I asked if we could make sure this wouldn't happen again , he said he couldn't guarantee it . I had approached him in a calm and reasonable manner all I wanted was to know that I would never be blocked in without prior consent but I'm afraid I used a bad word at that point.
My question is for anyone who may have any knowledge is where do I stand if a similar situation arises and what options do I have if any?
( The farm road is an private untarred track owned by me and he has access rights)
Now the problem , I had a hospital appointment for 10.45 (another story a cow kicked me and broke my hand) so I went to my neighbours house about 9.00 and his wife told me he had abandoned his car there and got a lift to work with out so much as leaving a spare key so that I could shift it. So I had no way of getting out and even though she called him three times and I was assured he was coming back to move it he didn't appear till 1.30 missing both my original appointment and a cancellation one I managed to get for 12.30.
After approaching him a couple of days later after I had calmed down a bit he was not apologetic and even thought that it was my fault for not keeping the road clear of snow , I asked him why he didn't call me as I'd have helped him get out , he responded by saying he didn't want to bother me . So trying to move on I asked if we could make sure this wouldn't happen again , he said he couldn't guarantee it . I had approached him in a calm and reasonable manner all I wanted was to know that I would never be blocked in without prior consent but I'm afraid I used a bad word at that point.
My question is for anyone who may have any knowledge is where do I stand if a similar situation arises and what options do I have if any?
( The farm road is an private untarred track owned by me and he has access rights)